Painful Sexual Intercourse (Dyspareunia)

Pain during or after sexual intercourse is known as dyspareunia. Although this problem can affect men, it is more common in women. Women with dyspareunia may have pain in the vagina, clitoris or labia.

There are numerous causes of dyspareunia, many of which are treatable. Common causes include the following:

Vaginal dryness.

Atrophic vaginitis, a common condition causing thinning of the vaginal lining in postmenopausal women.

Side effects of drugs such as antihistamines and tamoxifen (Nolvadex and other brands)
An allergic reaction to clothing, spermicides or douches

Endometriosis, an often painful condition in which tissue from the uterine lining migrates and grows abnormally inside the pelvis

Inflammation of the area surrounding the vaginal opening, called vulvar vestibulitis
Skin diseases, such as lichen planus and lichen sclerosis, affecting the vaginal area

Urinary tract infections, vaginal yeast infections, or sexually transmitted diseases
Psychological trauma, often stemming from a past history of sexual abuse or trauma.

SYMPTOMS:

Women with dyspareunia may feel superficial pain at the entrance of the vagina, or deeper pain during penetration or thrusting of the penis. Some women also may experience severe tightening of the vaginal muscles during penetration, a condition called vaginismus.

DIAGNOSIS:


Dyspareunia typically is diagnosed based on your symptoms. Your medical and sexual history and your physical examination will help your doctor to determine the cause of your symptoms.

Distinguishing pain that occurs with touching the genitals or early penetration from pain that occurs with deeper penetration is a clue to the cause of your symptoms. Therefore, your doctor will ask you questions about the exact location, length and timing of your pain. He or she also will ask you:

If there was ever a time you had painless intercourse, or if you have always had dyspareunia
If you have enough natural lubrication, and if your symptoms improve if you use commercially available lubricants

About your sexual history (to help assess your risk for sexually transmitted infections)
If you have ever been sexually abused, or had a traumatic injury involving your genitals

In addition:

If you are middle-aged, your doctor will ask whether you are experiencing irregular periods, hot flashes or vaginal dryness, symptoms suggesting that you may have atrophic vaginitis.
If you are a new mother, your doctor will ask whether you are breastfeeding your baby, because breastfeeding also can lead to vaginal dryness and dyspareunia

During the physical examination, your doctor will check your vaginal wall for signs of dryness, inflammation, infection (especially yeast or herpes infection), genital warts and scarring. Your doctor also will do an internal pelvic examination to look for abnormal pelvic masses, tenderness or signs of endometriosis. He or she also may suggest that you speak with a counselor to determine whether a history of sexual abuse, trauma or anxiety may be contributing to your symptoms.

PREVENTION


Although some causes of dyspareunia, such as a history of sexual abuse or trauma, can't be avoided, other causes can be prevented:

To decrease your risk of yeast infection, avoid tight clothing, wear cotton underpants and practice good hygiene. Change your underclothes after prolonged sweating. Bathe or shower daily, and change into dry clothing promptly after swimming.

To avoid bladder infections, wipe from front to back after using the toilet, and urinate after sexual intercourse.

To avoid sexually transmitted diseases, avoid sex or practice safe sex by maintaining a relationship with just one person, or using condoms to protect against sexually transmitted diseases.

To prevent vaginal dryness, use a lubricant, or seek treatment if the dryness is due to atrophic vaginitis.

TREATMENT


Treatment depends on the cause of dyspareunia:

If vaginal dryness is the problem, you can ease penetration and sexual intercourse with increased clitoral stimulation before intercourse or lubrication with an over-the-counter lubricant such as K-Y jelly, Replens or Astroglide.

For vaginal yeast infections, you will be given antifungal medication.

Antibiotics will be prescribed for urinary tract infections or sexually transmitted diseases.

To relieve painful inflammation, try sitz baths, which are warm-water baths in a sitting position.

For skin diseases affecting the vaginal area, the treatment will vary depending on the disease.

For example, lichen sclerosis and lichen planus often improve with steroid creams.

For vulvar vestibulitis, typical therapies include topical estrogen cream, low-dose pain medications, and physical therapy with biofeedback to lower the muscle tension in the pelvic floor.

For atrophic vaginitis, estrogen therapy will be prescribed, either as a vaginal formulation or as a pill.

If endometriosis is causing your dyspareunia, you may be prescribed medication or you may need surgical procedures to control or remove abnormal growths of uterine tissue.

For dyspareunia that has no apparent physical cause or has lasted for months or years, you may need psychological counseling to address stress or anxiety regarding sexual intercourse.

If you have endometriosis, avoid very deep penetration, or have sex during the week or two after menstruation (before ovulation), when the condition tends to be less painful

If you love her

The Analogist: IF you love someone ANDthis someone doesn't love u;THEREFORE you should set her free

Optimist: If you love someone, Set herfree...Don't worry, she'll comeback.

Pessimist: If you love someone, Sether free... If she ever comes back,she's yours, If she doesn't, asexpected, shenever was. Whatever gave you the ideathat she would anyway?

Suspicious: If you love someone, Sether free...If she ever comes back, askher why.

Impatient: If you love someone, Sether free...If she doesn't come backwithin a week forget her

Patient: If you love someone, Set herfree...If she doesn't come back putyour life on hold and sit and wait.

Playful: If you love someone, Set herfree...If she comes back, *and if youlove her still, set her free again,repeat*

Lawyers:If you love someone, Set herfree, Clause 1a of Paragraph 13a - 1in the 2nd amendment of theMatrimonial Freedom Act clearly statesthat...

Bill Gates : If you love someone, Sether free, Ifshe comes back, I think we can chargeher for re-installation fees and tellher that she's also going to get anupgrade.

Osama Bin Laden: If you love someoneset her free if she doesn't come backset bombs to bomb her.

Biologist: If you love someone, Sether free, She'll evolve.

Statisticians: If you love someone,Set her free, If she loves you, theprobability of her coming back ishigh. If she doesn't, your relationshipwas improbable anyway.

MacArthur fans: If you love someone,Set her free,SHE SHALL RETURN!

Overpossessive person: If you lovesomeone, don't set her free.T

he FBI agent: If you love someone,set her free. Then putbug on her phone and surveillancecameras in her house.

The Pathetic: If you love someone, sether free. Who wants to be stuck witha loser like you anyway?

The Lawyer: If you love someone, sether free.Then sue her for emotionaldistress.

The Psycho: If you love someone, sether free. If she doesn't come backshoot her.The Creepy Sociopath: If you lovesomeone, stalk her.

The Psychologist: If u love someoneset her free but studyher mind and her defense mechanisms ifshe still loves u

The Marketer: If u love someone sether free if she comes back sell her

The Nature lover: If u love someoneset her free if shecomes back plant a tree.

The Human Ecologist: If you lovesomeone, Set her free, Infact, all living creatures deserve tobe free..